Caveo hominum

So, yeah, my blog posts have been MIA for a long time. But that is all in the past. What we, as readers, need to focus on now is why has Julia neglected this precious blog for so long? Loyal blog followers, Julia has been distracted by dirty rotten MEN. Something that will distract her no longer, be assured. The previous boyfriend of jholiday, who shall not be named but rhymes with Josh DOUCH BAG has held Julia back for too long.

Well, since this a blog about Jholiday's daily life I owe it to you readers to delve into the inappropriately personal tale of the downward spiral of Julia's love life.

So Mr D and I were going along in our girlfriend-boyfriend life just la-dee-da until I stumbled upon some very inappropriate myspace messages! Jules was left for another woman! ! ! It was really traumatizing. All of this happened about a week and a half ago.

But you know what is great about this break up? How quickly I got over it. Honestly, it was all through having my heart broken in the past and knowing what to expect in the healing process and my AMAZING group of friends who never let me be alone. Now I truly feel as though I am myself again. I feel like myself...but better. Myself...with more possibilities, perhaps?

There is something a bit humiliating about being in a bad relationship. When it is over you think that you should have known better. And you wonder what your peers think. Something like, "Oh, that poor girl", which hurts almost as much as the break up.